Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.
I left my dating books around and when they came over they found it. Now i’v been getting crap for them. I mean what should I do when I get a gf and they tell her that I been using books and stuff?
My quick answer to this question:
I can’t believe this is a serious question, lol. Why would you want a girlfriend who’s so immature that she believes perfect men grow on trees? Any woman of high quality has gone through personal development herself. She understands that we come out of society as insecure, confused and contradictory… She knows that you need to experiment and generally educate yourself on the subject before you become the perfect, ideal, real-man that most men desire.
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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Tell her you research everything to be the best that you can be, and tell your friends here read this you need all the help you can get.
Self help books shows that you have an interest to improve yourself. If these books have titles like, “How to get laid on the first date” or How to pick up women. Then it might send signals that you are not ready for a mature relationship and you might be considered shallow. If these books work on your confidence and communication skills, then it is a plus.
At least you’ll know what to do. unlike your friends.. Don’t worry about it