Question: Hey, I am 4’11 and I would like to know what is you opinion upon dating a girl as short as me.
If you have any great tips to grow tall please tell. I am desperately waiting for your answer.
Answer:
Some girl from yahoo answers had a cool question. And I’m going to answer her question, so that you see how clueless girls are
Hey girl… I have never EVER in my life dated a girl above 5’0… Ever! In fact, I am not able to be physically attracted to a girl who isn’t short. And guess what? I’m not unique, at least 1/3 of my male friends are also into (only) short girls.
So the real answer is… focus on the guys who are attracted to you. If you opened your eyes, you’d notice there’s a line of guys waiting to date you, but you have been blind to them, because you were obsessed with what you think is a “flaw”, and comparing yourself with other girls. Lol, so instead of comparing yourself with other girls, focus on GUYS… focus on finding the guys who are your match…
I hope this girls question has been a revelation to you. It sure was for me when I noticed the types of questions girls ask. Believe it or not, most of the time when women are cold or seem uninterested in guys, the real reason is that she’s so obsessed with her own insecurities that she has no energy left to mind your feelings. She’s so obsessed convincing herself that no guy is interested, that even when you sho interest, she brushes it off… and acts unfriendly. She LITERALLY is blind to it and doesn’t see it.
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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It’s not the size of the boat it’s the motion of the ocean!
Ok so I’m a girl but I’m 16 and shorter than you so I know exactly how it hits your self esteem. I think that guys normally like girls shorter than them, because it makes them feel big and strong. But they also like girls with long legs etc, so generally not extremely short. I think most guys like girls 5’2-5’6.
Anyway I’m done growing too, but there’s a lot you can do to compete with the taller girls. Things like how to make your legs look long, how to look taller and how to get guys attention to your best features. Maybe we could swap tips and stuff? You can mail me through my profile.
Claire
xox
I personally don’t like short girls. I prefer someone who is the same height as me, or at most 5 inches shorter. I don’t like dating girls who taller either.
How old are you? If you are still in your teens then you will grow taller naturally, but if you are past your teens then there’s not much you can do to get taller
Short girls are cool you can pick them up easily and put them in suitcases, no just kidding. But short girls are nice though. It depends on how old you are if your going to get taller. If your in your late teens then your SOL. But if you in your earlier teen years, then there might be hope for you to grow a few more inches.
guys tend to like shorter girls BETTER because they have a need to be taller than their girlfriend (for some reason). Be greatful you’re small