Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: i always see a lot of questions coming about in singles and dating and 80% of the time the people seem to be moping. I think that people should learn to deal with whatever problems they have themselves because thats what gives them more dating experience and makes them a stronger person do you agree?
Answer:
I – COMPLETELY disagree. In fact, the main reason a lot of people in our society (western modern society) don’t progress in their personal lifes is because they keep their issues to themselves. Talking issues out with others helps you grow, and you should let go of the ego preventing you from asking help.
The main difference that succesful and happy people… have from unhappy, unsuccesful people…. is that the succesful people aren’t afraid of voicing concerns and asking for help… whereas weak, unsuccesful people think that shutting up and keeping things to yourself is somehow a virtue.
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I agree but it sure is fun reading all the sad mopey questions.
It’s what gets me through the work day [=
Not that people’s sadness gives me happiness….I like to give advice and I feel good helping out
I do see your point, seeing as i only answer single and dating questions i do agree i see that alot. But some pple are just lost and need annoymous help with there problems, if there is anything i have learned on yahoo answers is that boys have no knowledge abot girls and girls have no knowledge about boys and the questions can get a bit repetative, and your sitting there saying to yourself “why cant we all just talk and really understand one another” that is why i named myself invisible guardian so when pple are really lost and need help with there problems i try my best to guide them.
I think its healthy. I think some ppl just need anothers persons perspective. And some just may need to vent there fustration. Some may need not even use the answers. I also think its kinda healthy for those who just read and respond to the questions such as myself, to help them forget about there own issues.
I agree completely. I do understand though, when people just need some reassurance on certain situations, and i love giving them advice for it. I’ll gladly share my knowledge on relationships with people who aren’t as knowledgeable.
Its always nice to hear from another persons perspective rather than yours.
Everyone, even the strongest get weak from time to time. Why shouldn’t there be somewhere to ask advice?
If you think people should deal with their problems by themselves, you should start by keeping opinions like that to yourself.
yes i do agree, but people probably put those kinds of questions up because they really care about the subject and they don’t want to make the wrong decision. im sure they still make their own decisions.they probably just want advice
Ultimately, the choice is always up to us in life. We are influenced in part by our peers and so forth, but must come upon the answers ourselves.
It’s obviously here for a reason and I’m just checking it out …but if you put it that way …goodbye