Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
I’ve never been on a date
I’ve never been kissed
I’ve never been hugged
turning 18 in a week, wanna start finding love=)
I was planning during college, and some dating sites?
But plan to start off with older woman if possible?
Answer:
Since you don’t have any experience with a women, don’t start out by being too picky. It is a kind of ego-defense against not succeeding at all. But, since you want to start off with older women, it means that you probably just want to get some experience for yourself. And that’s a great thing!
If you want to hit it off with older women, you are going to have to seem older yourself, at least in the mind. If you are immature, start acting mature. Stop playing video games and watching Jackass, and start being acting more of a man.
With older women, you can be more direct and not play games too much. Older women have gone through a lot with men during their lives, so don’t bother playing games with them. Just be sincere.
About the dating sites, well that’s a numbers game like pretty much everything with women. You can send hundreds of emails and see which ones catch on.
Don’t wait until college, get experience with women in any way possible as soon as possible. That’s you priority!
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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ok you cant just fall in love lol haha
you have to i guess start going out
i suggest since your 18 get a couple friends who are 18 and go
to clubs like for 18+ ppl
or go meet ppl at college
Just go about your business as usual. Hang out with friends, pursue hobbies- someone you mesh with will come along!
Hi:
Wrong move. Don’t go out with an older woman you are 18 years old and really have nothing in common.
Try the internet… plenty of fish.com ( its free free)
Wow, not even hugged by a friend who is a girl?
Okay here is what I think.
To start with take a good long look in the mirror, decide where you rate on attractiveness. If People’s Sexiest Man Alive are 10′s, and a 1 is the Elephant man with 5 just being average where would you rate? This is your leauge. This is the same level you should be looking for in a date. Don’t shoot too high or too low. Most men have a hard time understanding their leauge and shoot too high.
Next ask yourself honestly is there any small changes I could make that would make a woman more interested? Maybe your hair looks oily, or you need to brush your teeth after meals. I don’t know, this is a personal search and everyone has something they could improve on (or many things in my case) that would make things easier.
Now you are ready to start dating, first of all make friends, make friends make friends! Girl friends and guy friends are useful because men can introduce you to ladies you have never met before. To date older woman make older friends.
Join a club or sport to mix and meet people, maybe do something outside of your school. Fencing, dragon boat racing, a running club, cycling, painting, drama, role playing…whatever you are into. This ensures that you meet someone who shares at least one of your interests.
Now you are set to start mixing it up and meeting some new people. Maybe also post a personal ad and see if you get any bites. Keep in mind ladies for the most part are still traditional and like to have the man make the first move, so leave them comments. The more comments you leave, the more chances you have to make new contacts, and remember again keep it in your leauge.
If none of this works go to school to become a plastic surgon, make lots of money and meet beautiful older woman who are looking to botox away those fine lines and wrinkles.
Good luck!
Wow your kind of like my friend, I always tell him that he just needs to be more up front. Also try to sort himself out because there is obviously things about him that aren’t attractive to the opposite sex and things he should do, like changing his style and looks and trying to get more “fit”.
So maybe you just need to start there and then more girls will pay attention to you, but you only get out what you put in. And older women like a guy that is decent and treats them like a younger girl…
I recommend dating women your own age. You will have more in common and be at the same level. Older women will tend to act like your mother. Do you want that?
its better u date with ur same age girl