Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
If women were not so “high maintenance” do you think more women would be dating other women? The number one reason most women give to why they are not dating women is this one. So, what do you think about it?.
And since most women find female secondary sex characteristics more appealing (indicating a preference for female features regarding human sexual dimorphism and showing they have a homosexual orientation); do you think avoiding “high maintenance” is what makes them “straight”?.
My answer:
Well, many women are bisexual. A lot of women today have lesbian sexual experiences, much more than before. The number is much higher than we think, because most women hold do not tell other people about it. I wouldn’t bet on the high maintenance thing. Women will give any superficial reason that they don’t date other women simply because lesbianism is still not accepted in our society.
There is probably a bit truth about what you are saying regarding the high maintenance thing. However, women act more high maintenance with men than with women. Women are more laid back around women and they are usually more truthful around them.
Even women themselves admit that they can be so complicated that their female friends won’t understand them, much less other men.
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It’s possible, considering that when a man falls in love, or is trying to impress a woman, he buys her things, and does everything for her. Versus when a woman (most women anyways) fall in love, they want everything handed to them form there partner, so if both partners are expecting to be given everything and do nothing to receive it, then yes that would create a conflict to the women dating each other.
Then you mention the features, and personally I don’t find many attractive things on a woman, like the reproductive parts. They are very odd in my opinion, and although I am comfortable with myself, a mans reproductive parts are much more clean cut, they don’t have large openings of access into the body. I also find that a mans hairy chest is very nice. if kept up.
What?!
No most woman are not lesbians!
I would never date a woman because I am not sexually attracted to them.
I’m low maintenance and there is no way I’m dating a woman.
This doesn’t make any sense. The number one reason straight women don’t date other women is because they’re straight. This leaves lesbian and bisexual women. Lesbians, by definition, tend to date other women. So I suppose most bisexual women prefer men to women due to the high maintenance factor, but that’s assuming all women are high maintenance, which we aren’t. So none of this question makes a lick of sense.
ETA – Sorry, I didn’t realize Brett had created another sock puppet. Now I get it. It’s his usual ‘so have you quit beating your wife’ kind of thing…
no, there sexual preference is the reason why they don’t date more women, not being high maintenance
My mom isn’t straight and s he dressed like a guy and not high maintnance, and I’m super high maintenance and very girly and I’m straight so I guess that’s correct. (If I understood your question correctly)
If I stopped being high maintanance I would have no choice but to date a girl.
But the problem is that women need a man (sexually) so they must be high maintanance even if they don’t want to, or else no guy would date them, so it’s like a cycle
Hi Brett.
The thing is, you’re basing your theory on two untruths. I would say that the reason most women don’t date other women is that they’re straight and aren’t interested in having sex with other women. I don’t find women high maintenance, and I do like to hang out with them and do things that don’t include having sex. I like to talk with women, for example. Again, since you seem to be unclear on the concept: I just don’t want to have sex with them OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT.
I’m not alone on this.
Ugh, NO! Straight women do not date other women because they are not attracted to the female body. Would you give it a rest with this lesbian conspiracy theory?
i should think so
Yeah, maybe. I’m pretty low maintenance. I don’t think I could stay that way if I were dating women.
You made me laugh, because I suspect that if straight women tried to date each other, “do you think I need a jacket?” could turn into going into the closet and making the whole damned wardrobe over, then putting together a better outfit for the date, then rushing to go out for a nightcap before everything closed.