Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

If women were not so “high maintenance” do you think more women would be dating other women? The number one reason most women give to why they are not dating women is this one. So, what do you think about it?.

And since most women find female secondary sex characteristics more appealing (indicating a preference for female features regarding human sexual dimorphism and showing they have a homosexual orientation); do you think avoiding “high maintenance” is what makes them “straight”?.

My answer:

Well, many women are bisexual. A lot of women today have lesbian sexual experiences, much more than before. The number is much higher than we think, because most women hold do not tell other people about it. I wouldn’t bet on the high maintenance thing. Women will give any superficial reason that they don’t date other women simply because lesbianism is still not accepted in our society.

There is probably a bit truth about what you are saying regarding the high maintenance thing. However, women act more high maintenance with men than with women. Women are more laid back around women and they are usually more truthful around them.

Even women themselves admit that they can be so complicated that their female friends won’t understand them, much less other men.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

Do divorced straight men prefer “dating” married women or single women? Tell me your preference and why.

My answer:

I will presume you are a woman and I will tell you the somewhat harsh truth. Men don’t really care if the woman is married or single. Sometimes, they will avoid married women, but not because of moral reasons. They will avoid them because it might bring conflict and tension in their lives.

It really comes down whether he likes you as a person and whether he likes your looks. If he likes those two, or at least one of them, he will prefer you whether you are married or single. Like I said, they will only prefer the single ones more if the married ones bring them trouble with her husband or with the law.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

DATING Tips? im trying to get a date with this girl, we dont really hang much much, im going to try. How can i use my best fetures of me to get her; here they are:
humor, eyes, smart, down for whatever, well hung, can cook

she has already seen me nude by accident, so i dont know how that will go, but i want to cook for her! HELP?

My answer:

You have got it all the wrong way. You are acting like you need to impress her. All your qualities don’t matter even one bit if you brag about them even a bit. She needs to find about your qualities herself. That way, she’ll be way more pleasantly surprised.

If she is attracted to you, don’t start acting differently. Be playful with her, tease her verbally, and physically tease her by poking her or something. Don’t tell her your feelings verbally. When you do set up a date with her, you need to get physical as fast as you can.

That’s what she’ll react to the most. Women want strong confident men who aren’t afraid to take things physically. After you do, don’t tell her you like her and that you want to be with her. Stay cool, keep it cool.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

What are some informative blogs/websites for straight forward dating advice? What are some informative blogs/websites for straight forward dating advice?
I find this one to be helpful and straight forward with advice:

My answer:

Yes I do. I will give you three websites.

The first two are if you are a virgin and have no experience with women or have very little experience.

The second will be if you are already a guy that is somewhat successful with women, but you just need a small push.

Here is the first two: http://www.succeedsocially.com/ and www.datinggroundwork.com

Here is the third website: http://www.sosuave.com/

Just remember that you will find many guru’s who want to sell you products, and I am telling you that you don’t need that. They are almost all scams.

Use what I gave you and practice a lot.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

What are your best dating tips? I am considering to start dating again after being married for 43 years and I feel a little lost. I see a lot of opportunities on line and I am not too hot about registering with a dating agency. Would you share a few tips with me?

My answer:

Hey, it’s okay to feel a little lost in this day and age. So much has changed from when you got married to today. Everything is very different. And I am telling you that it is different in a very positive way. We have so many opportunities today, compared to 50 years ago. Everything is so much liberal, which will make the dating scene easier for you.

About the dating agency thing, you can resort to that as a solution on the side. Focus on meeting women live. You can meet women anywhere today: dance lessons, cooking lessons, sports, yoga, etc. Women are not bound by social shame today. They can go wherever they want and they can do almost whatever they want.

There are so many hobbies you can join to meet women. Let that be your first base of meeting women.

by Al Pavangkanan

I know that many guys have struggled much in getting their dating life up and running. So here are few tips that you can use when you date new people. Keep these in mind and yo will have a second date.

Firstly just be happy that you are on a date. Be grateful for an opportunity to meet someone new. Don’t have unrealistic expectations. Just be there and be quiet. You are on a date, not a job interview. You don’t have to say the perfect line or the perfect story. Since your date has agreed to meet with you – she wants you ALREADY. So no need for fancy tricks and gimmicks.

When you are on a date there is one thing that you should definitely avoid. And that is – talking. Yes talking, you’ve hard me right. People love hearing about themselves. So give that to them. Just shut up and LISTEN when your date is talking. Ask her questions about herself, her family, her job, her ANYTHING. The conversation must be on HER, and on HER. No talking about your super sexy achievements. Girls are interested you, but they are much more interested in themselves.

Another thing, this does not concern your manners when you are on a date. This goes much deeper. Don’t seek the other person to fulfill you or make you happy. Don’t search for perfect partner that will solve all your problems, this will never happen. Develop self reliance and self authority, you are your own boss. You decide about your feelings, other people can help you to express your feeling. They can’t MAKE you feel loved, happy, satisfied. Only you can make you feel loved. Think about it. 

You are right when you say that dating life is difficult for single men. But you have to do it until you find the perfect girl for you. Until then I will give you some free tips to get you on your way of finding your perfect girl.

Below are the four major points that you might have overlooked when you dated other girls before. Girls have a very different perspective on everything! Making various “funny” sounds with your body is not so funny to her as you may think it is. You do these things when you go out with your male friends.

Please do not show off to girls with your romance endeavors. Girls really have no interest in hearing with how many other women you slept. If you are well known among the girls in your area, then go to some other place. Girls you date in your area will definitely not appreciate your playerish conquests.

For God’s sake please don’t talk about your former relationships, your date really has no interest in hearing that.

And again I must stress that you don’t treat girls as guys. Don’t show up at here door in old baggy pants and washed up t-shirt. Freshen up and put your new fancy clothes on. And be sure to bring some nice flowers. They always work.

Don’t take your date in some cheap diner. She is not a discount offer. Take her to some fancy restaurant so she can see how much you appreciate her beauty. Women deserve to be treated with respect, so treat them that way!

Just keep this simple advice close to you and implement it in your life fully, and I can guarantee you that you will start to enjoy your dating life ! If you use just these simple tips I guarantee you that you will see your date again. People generally advice you that you should behave naturally when you are on a date. But sometimes that is simply not enough, so keep these  tips in mind if you want to have short and successful dating life.

Some guys really over complicate everything, dating women is no exception to that. They make dating look complex and hard to learn, and the truth is that dating is a fun game of meeting other people. It’s not hard. If dating and mating was really hard – then there would be no children and humans would not survive. Dating is biologically catered to be easy, because if we don’t have easy dating we don’t have easy mating, and then we don’t have babies. And that is bad, very bad. So since you know the secret your dating life will be much easier. But keep an eye on some things you should do when you are on a date, also keep in mind some things you should definitely avoid.

Please don’t try to impress a woman that’s on a date with you. If she’s on date with you she is already impressed by you. So why would try to impress somebody who is already impressed.

Women are much more interested in little and neat things. For instance you could surprise her by cooking a dinner or buying some flowers. Women always respond to gentle and chivalrous men. Gentle men are always interested in their women, you know that women adore talking about themselves – so let them talk all the time. By listening all the time you look mysterious. She is sharing everything with you and she does not know anything about you. Mysterious and charming stranger has always been a fantasy for every woman.

When you are on a date you should also take care of your grooming and clothes. No you can’t go on a date dressed like a douche. It’s disrespectful of you and the woman. Learn something from women, always be dressed up. It will help you in your dating life and in your business life. For a well dressed man all doors are open.

I know that meeting women during the day and getting their number is really an exceptional skill. Many guys would do anything to obtain these skills. But there is something even better that that, and that is – instant date. Imagine how nice it would be if you could stop any girl you like and go on an date with her right there, right then.

This instant date does not have to be anything fancy, just a quick 15 minutes to know each other. Just to see how the girl is breathing and to find out do you really like her or not. Also if you happen to like her beyond physical appearance the chance for second date will go increasingly higher if your first date was right there on the spot. She already go to know you a bit and she knows you are safe.

By doing an instant date with a girl you show her many of your attractive qualities. You are dominant, sexy, adventurous and mysterious, what girl would not like a guy like that?

When you ask a girl for an instant date it’s important that you look relaxed. If you ask for a date with a nervous grin of course that she wont accept. The best way to become relaxed when asking for an instant date is to try it a couple of times and fail miserably. That way you won’t have any fear of loss and you will effortlessly relaxed.

Again when you are your first date just a girl few basic questions, compliment her and be on your way. That’s enough for the first time. Remember if a girl has agreed to go right there on the spot with you she definitely likes you very much. That’s a good thing to know, because if she likes you already the effort you have to put in the interaction will be considerably lower.

Good luck with your dating!

Of course that you can only date women that are interested in you. The only problem lies in getting to know is a woman interested in you. There are some covert ways for a woman to express her interest in a guy. Your job is to find out what these signs are and to use them to your advantage. Of course there is a risk of misinterpretation, but that’s the risk you will have to take if you want to get some dates. Of course interest does not equals long term fulfilling romantic relationship, but it’s a stepping stone to that.

Some of the signs that women show to a guy they like:

Smiling

Smiling is the easiest and the bluntest way for a woman to express her interest. If she is constantly smiling at you and cracking at your stupid jokes she is surely interested in you.

Flirting

This can be tricky. Women flirt if they are interested, but they also flirt just for fun. Every woman flirts in a different way, but women who like you will flirt in a special way. They will ask you all kinds of silly question and they will touch you all the time. That’s the easiest way for them to get your attention. But keep in mind that women that flirt with all the guys are not so reliable. They are not for stable relationships. They are more a merry-go-round type. And that is great if you look for that kind of women.

Licking Her Lips

That’s the oldest trick in the book, and it always works. Licking lips is a biological response that a woman does when she finds an interesting guy. You can’t go wrong with biology. If a woman is licking her lips in front of you, she is definitely VERY interested.

Twisting Her Hair

Twisting hair is also one of the biological responses women do when they see an attractive guy. If she is doing that in front of you, she is thinking about many nice things she could do with you. If you know what I mean.

Talking to You

Oh yes, it sounds stupid. But if a woman is talking to you and replying to your questions and asking you questions in return – YES she is definitely interested. I don’t know how guys miss this. It’s the most obvious clue. Also whenever a woman re-initiates the conversation – she is interested.

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